It seems to me that women sacrifice so much for the man they love (and this is okay) however in man situations the man does not do the same. The woman overlooks this sometimes or even makes excuses. Oh he is a man , he is busy, he has other things to worry about. We as women do this alot. We accept our men and love them overlooking all their flaws we love them for them and all they are. However when it comes to some men they can not overlook the womans flaws. They look at the woman that has carried their children keeps a home and works and says you arent what you were when i married you. Are you serious half of the time they arent either but they are quick to pass judgment on you. I have seen this in so many realtionships not my own.
Another think that has me thinking is the cheating man and how he hurts two women and sometimes these two women are so mad at each other that they dont realize they have both been hurt lied to and let down. They continue to treat this man like a king nuture him and meet his every need all while they are slowly breaking down. He sees this but does nothing cause the only thing he rally cares about his him and not the tow women that truly love him with all they have. Instead of being honest he will lie thinking that the lying will hide the truth but women are smarter then that.
I spent so much time hating the woman of the man that i loved that i forgot to realize werther they are happy or not she is still a woman and probably hurts as I do.
Well I have to head to a meeting now but please feel free to share your stories!
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Any man who thinks that a woman will be the same person she was before the children, and the marriage is living in a damn dream world. Things Change, Life Changes, and depending on how we are treated, and supported WE CHANGE. Women don't REALLY change though - they adapt. We adapt to accomodate the life we want our children to have, and to make a better life for the FAMILY -
While being "that other woman, I didn't give a damn about "his woman" and what they were going through, I just wanted to get mione, and be out, ask no questions, and carry no conversations, get your shit and be out - but the more I let him come and go, I began to think..Damn, I wonder how she feels and what she is thinkin. What is REALLY going on for him to be "all up in mines". It aint her its his ass, cause if he really wanted to leave her, he would....
I once hated the WOMEN that I felt "came in between us" but later as the hurt slowly, and I mean slowly eased away , I began to realize..It wasn't her. Shit, they were just handling theirs the way I was handling mine. Shit sucks, on both ends cause either way, someone is getting hurt.
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